My experience was definitely more enjoyable because of the kink haha. I got a expander as a teen with brackets but because it was so exiting the annoying aspects where doable for sure ) I really like the look of metal myself so it made it not so shameful to talk ect.
Now I like it more on others but I still would get braces myself again, just to lay there again and have someone decided everything for me and force them on me

Ooh yeah that last part for sure. I feel like I like the somewhat subby aspect of it, being in this chair, others making decisions, cheek retractor in my mouth, not seeing how I look while they're applied. Also like the idea of making someone else get braces (in fantasy scenarios where its plausible). Like deciding I want someone in braces and having it scheduled for them, deciding they're getting metal ones, overseeing the application process (maybe filming it to embarrass them haha), and then teasing them about it afterwards...telling them they look hot and "needed" braces and yeah.

Definitely very out there and just a fantasy haha.

I'm not sure yet. What did you get? Also do you know for what reasons an adult may be required to have headgear? Or one of those appliances that's like a moving bar that connects top and bottom row?

That appliance you’re describing is a herbst, and both are used for overbites. I’m pretty sure that they are both predominantly used in children and teens still growing, but there’s still a chance.

I was excited to get them, and I was very pleased how they turned out. I have an edge to edge bite and am projected to need elastics and that’s it.

One thing you should keep in mind is that no natter how much you want braces there will be some physical pain when you first get them how much depends on your pain threshold I know you can take pain meds to releve it but nothing kills a fantasy more than pain. I'm not trying to put you off and I know you probably are aware it will hurt at least a bit but feel I should say something. I really wish I could have braces but for me it's impossible  so go for it if you can.

yeah, I bite the insides of my cheeks a lot so im anticipated the braces cutting up the insides of them which might not be so fun. I had Invisalign and the attachments kinda did that. The teeth moving/pressure pain isn't so bad though, I think I'll deal with it fine. Still would be exciting though. Why is it impossible for you?

Has anyone an idea how to hide the excitement, to me its really a challenge

I don’t know. Are you getting braces soon or have them? How has it been?
I’m like way too excited even thinking about it and no one can know because they’d think I’m insane haha. Like who is this pumped to be getting metal braces as an adult? Just me (and us here) I guess ?