My girlfriend, who I've been with quite a while now, somewhere along the line discovered my, shall we say 'admiration' of braces. When she was little she used to have braces, had to wear headgear and elastics etc. Somewhere in our relationship she discovered I like them, and things along the line of 'well I'll proberably never be able to get braces for you', to which I replied 'Well.... there is this site that sells fake braces etc' to which she instantly offered to get made for her.

I never dreamed of anyone understanding me liking braces, yet alone offering to wear them for me. But its been a few months now, since I recived my order of her fake braces from this site (which are brilliant and I highly recommend their service BTW). Of course, we have a completely 'normal' sexual relationship as most partners do, however she wares the braces sometimes for me and even acts very sexy in them for me! She'll wear braces for me, headgear for me, and does various sexual things to do with it, let me take photos, lets me really explore it freely etc (lets not go into too much detail shall we) She even discovered she likes it when I wear my retainer and do stuff for her, she was amazed to find out it actually turns her on.

Not to make anyone jelous, but I thought I'ld say, because you never know, it is a possibility your girlfriend or potential girlfriend will understand like she did me. You just have to confidence to talk about it I guess, I never thought it was possible but it sometimes is!

You're indeed one lucky bastard 

How exactly did your girlfriend discover that you like braces?

You're indeed one lucky bastard 

How exactly did your girlfriend discover that you like braces?

Well, to cut a long storey short, she found some pictures on my computer, to which I had to be honest about. She was quite upset at first. Which I can understand, it must be disheartening to think that 100% of your partners fantacies are not about you. I mean, I had the pictures on there way before we were going out, but I couldn't deny I didn't find braces a turn on. We talked about it and got over the whole thing in the end, she said it would make her happy to be part of that fantasy for me. I don't think she likes it as much as me but she did discover she likes the whole thing a bit I think. She talks about how she understands metal near, or in the mouth can be quite a sexy thing (afterall, she has a lip-ring, which looks good with the braces I might add), and how she can understand it seems quite a 'penetrative' idea the metal going right the way back. She had braces and headgear as a child but says she obviously didnt really think of it as a sexy thing back then, infact like most people, hated the headgear back then, but apparently didnt mind the braces. However, I know for a fact when I wear my retainer for her she finds it sexy, and she's more than happy to do more or less anything for me. So its swings and roundabouts.

I mean, I guess thats the essence of a good relationship (atleast I hope), you do things for one an other. I do things for her. She does things for me, and I don't even think they have to be an exchange of sexual-for-sexual, fetish-for-fetish favours. Although that could be another good way of convincing someone if you want to! The truth is people that care about you will do alot to make you happy, as you would for them... so make a deal, its just the confidence and embarrassment that comes with it you have to get over it. Belive me, at first I just wanted to bury my face in a pillow forever. But now its worked out good and we talk about things alot more openly. I guess because the braces thing was quite a secret for me, it allowed us to be more open about lots of other things. It also kinda opened up more dynamic forms of kissing, with the braces on, or off. Just for example, she will either wear the braces, or me the retainer, or both at once, and you really get into exploring eachothers mouths. You start to reach places you might not have bothered reaching before! Its new and interesting. Although snogging a girl wearing headgear is hard work (although v nice lol) and unfortunutely we tried doing elastics but it just pulls the fake ones out, never mind. The fakes look so convincing apart from the plate, unless you study and you look REALLY closely you cant even tell they're not real.