Ch. 220 - Donna and Blakely 1
By: Donna Santos
With my husband Dave away on a hunting trip with our soon-to-be son-in-law Chris, my beautiful daughter Blakely will be spending a week with me. I'm so proud of her and how she has coped with her medical issues. Just imagine being a happy-go-lucky twenty-something, only to find out you need complicated orthodontic treatment along with wearing back, leg, and wrist braces for the rest of your life. It was so hard on poor Blake at first, and I cried when Collene told me about her breakdowns. However, her friends and her casts have comforted her, plus she has Chris back in her life, hopefully forever. Blake often sends me pictures when she and Chris travel, and it always seems she has casts on both legs and is in her wheelchair. I'll never figure out Blake's thing for casts, but if they bring her comfort, it's fine with me.
however, I do know what it's like to have to wear a spinal brace, but it's different when you are older. It hasn't been too difficult for me, and I got used to my various braces very quickly, but it was so hard for Blake. I never could figure out why she enjoyed wearing Rebekah's old braces but despised the ones she actually needed. Well, that is all in the past, and both Blake and myself are now very used to our situations. I have to admit that having my daughter in a similar situation as the one I'm in really helped me, and I think it helped Blake to see her mom in a back brace, too. Billy's expert craftsmanship and his unique and inventive designs helped, too. Our braces are very confining and supportive, yet extremely comfortable.
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A car is pulling up out front; it's Blake's old Buick Roadmaster, which she loves so dearly. I go outside to greet her, and as she gets out of the car, there is something different about how she moves. Blake is moving her legs with her hands to get them out of the car. Then she carefully picked up her lower legs and lifted them until her knees were straight, and I could just hear the locks at her knees click. She then leaned her crutches against the door and got out, holding onto her car tightly to lift herself to a standing position. At this point, I was a bit scared; what could be wrong with my beautiful little Blakely now?
Once Blake was standing, she looked at me and smiled from behind her reverse-pull facemask, which lessened my concern. I walked towards the car as Blake carefully moved so she could close the door. I put my arms out for a hug, and Blake extended hers. Just as I was putting my arms around her, Blake seemed to lose her balance and fell into my arms. We hugged, and as I ran my hand down Blake's back, I could feel that there was something attached to her Milwaukee brace just above the girdle.
After our embrace, I went to the trunk of Blake's car to get her bags. Not only were there two suitcases, but there was also a brand new, very sleek and stylish-looking candy-apple red manual wheelchair. I'm wearing my low-profile back brace today, so I have to be careful lifting things. You know, the one where the neck ring is only attached in the back, with the anterior upright ending at my kyphosis outriggers. When I picked up Blake's wheelchair, it was surprisingly light, and I noticed TiLite label. I stacked Blake's bags on the seat of her wheelchair, and I followed her to the house, noting how different her gait was. At home, she usually walks with her knees and ankles free and without crutches, but her legs are locked straight, and she really relies on her crutches for support, as Collene, Judy, and Leigh must.
Once in the house, Blake set down on the couch, but not like she normally does. Usually, if her knees are locked, she frees them and just sits down normally. However, this time she used the arm of the couch and one crutch for support and sat down with her legs sticking out in front of her. I just watched as she lifted her left leg with one hand and released the knee lock with the other, then gently set her foot on the floor. The process was repeated with her right leg, and then she re positioned both her legs by grasping her KAFOs. I sat down next to her and asked:
"What's going on with your legs, Blake? Have you had a setback you haven't told me about?" I ask with concern.
"I'm just fine, mom; don't worry one bit. I'm just having a little fun trying something new, and I really like it. You know all about Leigh and Judy and their BioTronic implants, right?" Blake smiles her metallic smile from behind her red reverse-pull headgear.
"Yes, I know about them and how Judy and Leigh live as paraplegics now. Judy's disability is just like that of her sisters, and Leigh is completely paralyzed from her waist down. I know about the external ones that some of the other ladies fool around with, too. Are you using one, Blake?" I think I know what is going on.
"I am, mom, and I love it. When Judy visited me in her halo cast, Jimmy was using the device, and they gave it to me. Ever since, I have been using it and living life with my legs paralyzed like Collene. I'm still getting used to it, and some things, like sitting and standing, are still awkward. The only time I'm not paralyzed is when I bathe or switch braces." My daughter explains, still smiling.
"So are you thinking of getting an implant like Leigh and Judy have?" I inquire with a smile—I only want my little girl to be happy.
"I am, mother, I am. In fact, I have an appointment at The Clinic with Dr. Myra Johnson on Friday; she invented the device." Blake is very excited.
Smiling wide to show my acceptance of her desire, I said, "That's good, honey. You do what you need to do for you and Chris to be happy. I love you very much, and I fully support whatever decision you choose to make." Blake's smile gets even wider as I say these words.
"Thanks, mom; I knew you would approve. I love you, too." Blake and I hug, and I once again feel the device that I now know is paralyzing my daughter's legs.
I get up from the couch and offer my hand to Blake. As I helped Blake to her feet, I said, "Let's get you unpacked and settled in, then head to town for lunch. I know you have an orthodontic appointment this afternoon."
Blake ensures that the locks at her knees are fully engaged, and I take a long look at my daughter. She stands with perfect posture, enforced by her Milwaukee brace. Her metal-clad teeth are now almost perfectly straight, and her headgear frames her face. Blake's long, dirty blond hair cascades down her back, almost to her buttocks, and her tight-fitting blouse and equally tight-fitting and rather short skirt show off her assets. Her legs, encased in brown leather and steel, are so shapely, and her little feet look so cute in the low wedge sandals attached to her KAFOs. My daughter is the personification of beauty, and her braces only enhance her already striking appearance. Chris is one lucky man!
I follow Blake to her room, pushing her wheelchair with her bags on the seat. Once in her room, I put her bags on her bed and opened them for her. Blake sets the brakes on her wheelchair and uses her crutch to move the footrests out of the way, then positions herself in front of it. Holding onto her wheelchair, she leans her crutches against the bed and unlocks her left knee. Slowly and carefully, she lowers herself into her wheelchair, and once she is seated, her right leg is sticking out in front of her. Supporting her leg with one hand, she releases the lock, lowers her foot to the floor, and says, "I'm still getting used to doing things, mom. There is a lot for me to learn about being paralyzed." Blake laughs as she picks up her legs, and I use one of her crutches to swing the footrests back in place, and she sets her feet down upon them. Blake looks so adorable and happy in her wheelchair; it's like she was meant to be in one.
As I'm helping Blake get unpacked, I ask her about her orthodontic braces:
D - So Blake, what's it like to have orthodontic braces?
B - Oh, I hated them at first, but after I got to know Rita, she made me feel much better about them. At this point, my braces and all my appliances are just a part of me. Chris feels the same about his.
D - How bad do they hurt? I know braces are very painful at times.
B - Oh, they don't hurt at all, Mom. Sure, having my WEDD placed—it was screwed into my head—and some parts of my protraction treatment were painful. After I got used to those things, I didn't even really notice them anymore, other than when I ate or brushed my teeth. Of course, Chris and I couldn't kiss while wearing our WEDDs—they were in the way of everything.
D - So other than your protraction treatment, things have been pretty much painless, Blake?
B - That's right, mom. I think that getting all those spacers put in so all my bands would fit was actually more uncomfortable than turning my expanders. Why all the questions? Are you thinking of getting braces?
D - I am, dear. My teeth are not that bad, but they could use a little help. I have to admit that you and all our friends do look so cute wearing them, and braces seem to have a magical effect on men, too.
B - Oh, they do have a magical effect on a lot of people. Dad seems to always do a double take when he sees anyone with braces.
D - I have noticed that about your father, too. It used to really bother me, but now, knowing your friends, I understand his attention is on the braces, not the person wearing them.
B - So, get braces, mom! You will look so cute with them, and I know they will drive dad wild; he's weird like Chris. Maybe Dr. Joe will have time to look at your teeth after my adjustment; I'm only getting new archwires today.
D - I will see what Dr. Joe says if he has time. There is no need to rush into anything, sweetie.
After Blake got settled in, it was time to head to town. Blake left her crutches behind and rolled out to my pickup. She had an easy time transferring since Dave lowered my truck a bit, and there are also several convenient grab bars to hold onto. Once seated, she freed her knees, positioned her body and legs in the seat, and commented on how comfortable my old truck is. I pushed her wheelchair to the back of the truck, opened the tailgate, and set it in the bed, thankful that her chair is made of lightweight titanium and my truck is lowered a bit. As we drove into town, the topic of orthodontics came up again:
B - Mom, you'll look adorable with braces. I just know it!
D - I don't even know if I really need them, Blake. Maybe I just need Invisalign.
B - Oh, you need braces, mom—real braces, maybe even bands like mine. With all that I have going on in my mouth, I have learned quite a bit about orthodontics.
D - OK, Miss Smartypants, what do I need? We'll see if Dr. Joe agrees.
B - You definitely need braces—metal braces—or, better yet, full bands like me. Joe likes to use bands since they don't come loose like brackets, and you can eat almost anything without trouble. Remember before I got bands, how my brackets would come loose?
D - I do remember all the trouble you had when you had brackets; they kept popping off when you would eat, even though you were careful. So what else will I need, Dr. Santos?
B - Yea, brackets suck! I love my bands and have no problems with them at all. Let's see, you have a bit of crowding in your upper arch and a bit of an overbite. The crowding is not too bad, and your overbite is from tongue thrusting. Whenever you get upset or frustrated, you push on your front teeth with your tongue. A quad helix with a habit rake should fix those problems, along with headgear for your overbite.
D - I hope you are wrong, Dr. Santos. You're really filling my mouth up with metal, honey. So what about my bottom teeth?
B - You also have some crowding there and will need a lower expander like I wear with the little screw behind your bottom front teeth. It doesn't take long to get used to these appliances, and they will give you a cute lisp, too. You'll benefit from bands on at least your bottom teeth since your lower canines are rotated; bands give much better results than brackets do.
D - Can you think of anything else to try and cram in my mouth, dear? I don't think anything more can fit.
B - Yes, mom, there is one last thing. Remember Judy and Leigh telling the story of when they first got braces? You know how their spinal braces messed up their teeth, right? You'll need an orthodontic splint, just like the rest of us who wear back braces do. That will be the most difficult thing to get used to.
D - That's quite a lot of hardware, Blake. I'm sure all I'll need is Invisalign or clear brackets, not all that other stuff. We'll just see what Dr. Joe says, if he even has the time to take a look at my teeth. So, where shall we have lunch?
B - I want steak! I know my teeth will be a bit tender after getting new archwires; they always are. Oh, and your teeth will be quite tender from your spacers, too. They are a bit painful and uncomfortable.
D - Spacers? Blake, we don't even know if I need braces, and if I do, we have no idea what type. You are an experienced horsewoman, and you know not to put the cart before the horse.
We pulled up at Harry's Grill for lunch, and I helped Blake get into her wheelchair. We enjoyed our meal and were then on our way to Dr. Joe's office.
Little did I know of the journey that I would soon be embarking on...