32. At the beach again
After lunch we go to the beach for swimming. We also hope to see Georgio and Lisa again. At first we do not see them and so we decide to swim for a while. When we return we see them sitting next to our chairs on the beach. It is good to see them again and I think they have been waiting for us.
We sit there for a while and make small talk. Georgio has brought some beer and is happy to share it with us. Then, in the middle of the conversation, one of my rubber bands snaps. This has never happened to me in public before, but I decide to fix it. I remove my second rubber band and add a new set of rubber bands to my braces. I see the curious look on Georgio's face.
He hesitates for a moment, then asks, "I saw that you both have braces. Do they hurt?" It is my turn to answer first, "They really hurt at first. I needed a lot of painkillers to get through the first few weeks. But now I feel almost no pain. Maybe a little soreness from time to time."
Lisa then asks, "Is there a reason why you didn't get them as a child?" To my surprise, Tamara answers first, "I had removable braces as a child. I recently found some minor problems with my teeth, so this is my second treatment.” I know this is not the whole truth, but it is not a complete lie either. I guess Tamara does not want the story of her accidental braces to get around. I decide to take this as a hint and not reveal the full story of her braces.
I reply, "When I was a kid, my parents moved around a lot. I think I never went to the same dentist. I guess that is why no one ever suggested braces to me. And then I discovered that I needed braces to fix my bite and prevent future problems. I would have been better off with braces as a child."
Georgio then points to his teeth, "My parents could afford them when I was a kid. I am thinking about getting one of those aligners to straighten my teeth.” I start to laugh, "That's how it started for me. I wanted those invisible aligners and I ended up with a mouth full of braces.”
Then I show them everything I have in my mouth. Georgio and Lisa look fascinated when they see my two expanders. I don't think they realized what else I have in addition to the brackets and rubber bands. Georgio also has a worried look on his face, I think he is afraid of having the same fate.
Tamara sees the worried look on his face and tells him, "I think I need to tell you something. Braces will be my future profession, I am studying orthodontics at the university and I am in my last year." She pauses and then says, "I can take a quick look at your mouth and see if aligners can fix your problems.”
Georgio says, "Yes, please, Tim's story really worried me.” He then opens his mouth and lets Tamara look at his teeth. As usual, Tamara mumbles some gibberish while inspecting his teeth. She makes him bite down several times and looks at his bite from different angles. I wouldn't be surprised if she took a 3D scanner out of her bag. But of course she doesn't.
Then she looks at Georgio and says, "I think you would definitely benefit from treatment. But don't worry, your treatment would be much easier than Tim's. I think your problems can be fixed with either aligners or some fixed braces like I have." She then proudly shows off her pink braces and I can see that Georgio and Lisa are watching them closely.
Lisa asks, "How long will it take him to get his teeth fixed?" Tamara replies, "That is a difficult question without X-rays and a proper scan of his teeth. I think it will take no more than two years.” Georgio then asks, "Would you recommend aligners for me?"
Tamara replies, "That really depends on your preferences. I think your problems can be solved with aligners or fixed braces. And if I were you, I would go with fixed braces. They usually give you better results than aligners. But you can also get good results with aligners. Compliance with fixed braces is much easier because you cannot remove them. With aligners, you have to remember to put them in after every meal. I can also tell you first hand that fixed braces are not a big deal."
I interrupt her, "Trust her, she knows what she is talking about.” Tamara smiles, "I was involved in Tim's treatment as I had an internship in his office when he got his braces. In fact, it was I who installed his braces under the supervision of my boss. And I taught him how to brush his teeth with braces.”
I tell them, "That's where I fell in love with her. She looked so good and I loved being treated by her. She also had a nice way of teasing me, she even teased me with wearing a face mask.” I realize that Lisa and Georgio know what a face mask is and that maybe I shouldn't have mentioned it. The word "face mask" just slipped out of my head without me even thinking about it. That was a big mistake, I didn't want some strangers to know that I might need a face mask.s
To my surprise, Tamara then adds, "Me and my former boss have a slight disagreement about his treatment. She thinks that heavy rubber bands are enough to move his upper jaw forward. I think it would help him a lot to wear a face mask while he sleeps. In my opinion, this will improve his treatment results.” I am shocked to hear this. She had never told me that she recommends a face mask for me.
I stumble for words, "You never told me that.” She says, "Sorry, she was my boss and I had to support her opinion. There was no way I could disagree with her." I reply rather angrily, "You could have given me a hint.” She says, "I thought I did exactly that.” I realize that she is right and that her teasing was just that, "Sorry, but you really surprised me.” Still, she could have told me this important fact in private. After all, I am her friend and I have a right to know.
Tamara's eyes become slightly watery as she realizes her mistake and says, "Sorry, I should have told you earlier and in a more private place.” I think about what she did for me this morning and I am more than willing to forgive her, "Apology accepted. So what exactly do you recommend?"
Georgio and Lisa look a little uncomfortable as they are part of our private conversation. I feel uncomfortable too, but I need to know the truth now. When Georgio and Lisa want to leave, I ask them to stay. Tamara has to tell me the truth now in front of them. She has started and now she has to finish. I need to know her opinion about my need to wear a face mask.
Tamara begins, "You will soon have your expanders removed and your TPA and LLA inserted. I would recommend adding face mask hooks to your TPA and then you would be able to wear a face mask at night. These hooks are a common addition to TPAs and they could easily be added to your TPA. And of course I only recommend night wear in addition to full time rubber bands.”
I want to know more, "So how would you proceed?" She says, "I think you can have your expanders removed at your next appointment. The TPA and LLA will then preserve the result of your expansion and the face mask will move your upper jaw forward. I think it is better to have your expanders removed as soon as possible. You will feel much better with a smaller appliance in your mouth and wearing a mask is not a big deal. You should ask Lynn to make this change in your treatment.”
I disagree with the face mask being no big deal, but I think she is right about having my expanders removed. It would definitely be more comfortable to have less stuff in my mouth. But the price of wearing a face mask instead is not low, in my opinion. I tell her, "I'll think about it. And please do not be angry with me if I decide against a face mask.” Tamara hugs me and says, "I promise, I won't."
I want to move the discussion away from my need for a face mask, so I ask, "Lisa, did you have braces or are you thinking about getting braces?" Lisa is a little surprised by this sudden change of subject, but I think she knows why I am asking.
Her long answer is, "I think my teeth are just fine. I am happy with the way they look and I do not think there is much that needs to be fixed. But I want to support Georgio if he gets braces. I will at least get an orthodontist's opinion if he decides to get braces. Then I will know if I can benefit from braces, and I think most orthodontists give free consultations." I suggest that Tamara have a look at her teeth.
Tamara does as she is told and checks Lisa's teeth. Soon she says, "Lisa, you are right. Your teeth are almost perfect. There is no medical need for braces. Of course, an orthodontist can help you get a Hollywood smile, but that would only be for cosmetic reasons."
Georgio then hugs Lisa, "You would do that for me. You make me so proud. And I promise, I will definitely have my teeth checked by an orthodontist. And I will opt for fixed braces. Tamara, they look so good on you, and if you recommend them, I trust you." Then he offers us another beer and the discussion moves on to lighter topics.