I haven't posted here in a while, but that's because my life is boring as cabbage. 

Until last week. 

For those of you that do not know, a few years ago i managed to create my Locking Headgear - post here:  https://www.bracesforum.net/general/the-mythical-locking-headgear/ - but I don't get to play much.  Life has a way of happening.  And a lot of my more "interesting" friends either moved away, got married, or died.  Hell, even I got married!  (At the ripe old age of 40).  So my playtime with my various kinks and fetishes aren't that frequent anymore. 

There is no point in playing with a locking headgear unless someone takes your key away from you.   Thats the idea of locks, right?

So I bought myself one of these things:  https://dereferer.me/?https://www.thekitchensafe.com/

I've only had the opportunity for one play, but it was really fun, and really intense.  Pop the headgear key into the safe, and  I'm locked in until my time is up...  It's no substitute for a fun friend, but it's better than nothing at all! 

Well, opinions differ on whether or not marriage is a desirable state of affairs. 

Or in my case have to get involved with the DSS (UK social security)

Sorry. These were posted to the wrong thread.

I've only had the opportunity for one play, but it was really fun, and really intense.  Pop the headgear key into the safe, and  I'm locked in until my time is up...  It's no substitute for a fun friend, but it's better than nothing at all!

How long did you stay in ? what did you do ? go in public? ?

Sadly, life has taken some interesting turns, and play-time has not been available much.  but for those who asked: even my singular play session was boring as toast - just stayed at home and worked.  I find the idea of going public a wee bit pointless if you don't have a buddy with you, and as said, adventure time has been in short supply. 

And truthfully, as is the "want".  I mentioned this before elsewhere: As exciting and beguiling and "oh hell YES!" the fantasy of any given fetish is, real life is very, very different.  It gets really old, really fast.  And now at middle age, the desire for play is still there, but the flesh says "sorry buddy, not today" quite often.